The Wellness Diary
Insights, advice, new research, tips and tricks, and new resources to help you with your mental health journey.
What to Do if You Notice a Friend Is Unconsciously Competitive With You?
Friendships are meant to be supportive, yet sometimes subtle competitiveness creeps in. If you’ve noticed a friend who unconsciously compares themselves to you, it can feel confusing or even hurtful. At Meridian Counseling, we believe these moments can be powerful opportunities for growth, boundaries, and deeper self-understanding. Here’s how to recognize unconscious competition in friendships and respond in a way that protects your peace while preserving the relationship.
The Hidden Cost of Beauty: How Beauty Bias Affects Women’s Friendships & Relationships
Beauty is often praised as a gift, but for many women, it’s a double-edged sword. While society rewards attractiveness with attention and opportunities, it also subjects women to jealousy, exclusion, and bullying—especially from other women. This article dives deep into how beauty bias shapes relationships and friendships, revealing its often hidden emotional toll.
The Emotional Toll of Friendship Breakups: Coping With Loss and Healing
Friendship breakups can leave behind a deep ache that’s hard to explain. Whether sudden or long overdue, these endings can feel as devastating as romantic separations—yet they’re often overlooked. In this post, we explore the emotional toll of friendship breakups, why they hurt so much, and how to begin the healing process with compassion and clarity.
How to Talk About Different Political Views With Family Members Without Damaging the Relationships
Talking politics at the dinner table doesn’t have to end in slammed doors or silent treatments. Here’s how to navigate tough political conversations with family without damaging your relationship.
Why You’re Not “Too Much”: Understanding Emotional Intensity and Validation in Therapy
Have you ever been told you're “too sensitive” or “too emotional”? If so, you’re not alone. Many people—especially those navigating depression, trauma, or leadership roles—internalize the message that they are “too much.” This blog explores how therapy helps reframe emotional intensity as a strength, not a flaw, and provides a path toward healing, validation, and emotional freedom.
The Impact of Trauma on Intimacy & How Therapy Can Help You Reconnect
Trauma can cast a long shadow on our ability to connect—emotionally, physically, and relationally. Whether it stems from childhood neglect, abuse, betrayal, or PTSD, unresolved trauma often disrupts intimacy and trust. In this blog, we explore how trauma impacts your connection with others and how trauma-informed therapy offers a path back to closeness, vulnerability, and authentic love.
The Dark Psychology of Flying Monkeys and Why They Follow the Narcissistic Friend Who Is Bullying Others
Ever wondered why people blindly support a narcissist, even when they’re clearly bullying others? These enablers, known as “flying monkeys,” play a shocking role in emotional abuse. Discover the dark psychology behind their loyalty, how narcissists manipulate social groups, and what you can do to protect yourself from this toxic dynamic.
Why Is It So Hard to Make Friends in Los Angeles?
Struggling to form meaningful friendships in Los Angeles? You’re not alone. This blog explores why LA culture can feel isolating, how ego and industry-driven motivations play a role, and practical steps you can take to build a supportive community and choose strong, reliable friendships.
Unlock Emotional Intimacy: How Vulnerability Builds Stronger Relationships
In a world that celebrates independence and emotional control, vulnerability is often misunderstood. Yet, it’s one of the most powerful tools for building lasting emotional intimacy in a relationship. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of leadership, struggling with depression, or simply longing for deeper connection, allowing yourself to be emotionally open with your partner can transform how you relate and heal. This article explores how vulnerability strengthens trust, fosters authentic communication, and supports mental wellness—especially for high-achievers and those feeling isolated.
How to Support Your Child During a Crisis: Mental Health Tips for Parents & Leaders
When a child is in crisis, the most powerful tool a parent has isn’t a perfect solution—it’s presence. In this blog, we explore how to support your child through emotional upheaval with empathy, structure, and resilience. Whether you're a CEO juggling leadership or a parent navigating everyday demands, you'll find evidence-based, practical strategies to help your child feel safe, seen, and supported during life's most challenging moments.
How to Balance Talking and Listening in Relationships | Improve Communication & Connection
In relationships—whether personal or professional—communication is everything. But what happens when one person always speaks and the other never feels heard? Or when silence becomes a substitute for connection? This post unpacks how to balance talking and listening in relationships, offering therapist-backed strategies to help you communicate with clarity, empathy, and intention. Whether you’re navigating intimacy, leadership, or mental health challenges like depression and anxiety, learning this balance can change how you show up—for others and for yourself.
10 Ways to Spot a Female Sociopath as a Friend: Red Flags You Shouldn't Ignore
Think you might be dealing with a female sociopath? This in-depth guide reveals 10 key warning signs that your seemingly perfect friend could be hiding a dark personality disorder. Protect your mental health with these essential insights.
Why Do People Pull Away From Me Even Though I Didn’t Do Anything Other Than Be Nice?
Feeling confused when people pull away despite your kindness? You're not alone. Learn the psychological reasons behind emotional distancing, how to protect your peace, and ways to build healthier connections.
What Premarital Counseling Can Teach You About Long-Term Relationships | Building a Healthy Partnership
Premarital counseling is a powerful tool for couples seeking to build a strong foundation for a long-lasting, healthy relationship. It teaches valuable skills in communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intimacy, while also addressing important topics like managing expectations and finances. For couples navigating mental health challenges such as depression, counseling provides critical support, helping partners understand how to communicate effectively, support each other, and maintain trust through difficult times. Whether you're preparing for marriage or simply want to strengthen your partnership, premarital counseling offers essential guidance for fostering a fulfilling and resilient relationship.
How to Spot a Narcissistic Female Friend: Red Flags & Psychological Impact
Navigating friendships with narcissistic individuals can be emotionally exhausting and damaging to your mental health. If you suspect a female friend may be exhibiting narcissistic traits, it's crucial to recognize the red flags early. Traits such as a constant need for admiration, a lack of empathy, manipulative behavior, and emotional unavailability can be indicators of narcissism in a friendship. These relationships often leave you feeling drained, isolated, and even depressed. In this blog post, we explore how to identify a narcissistic female friend, the psychological impact of such relationships, and practical strategies to protect your mental well-being. Prioritizing your emotional health is key, and sometimes the best solution may be walking away from toxic friendships for good.
What If My Partner Is Polyamorous and I'm Not?
When one partner is polyamorous and the other is monogamous, it can create emotional and logistical challenges in a relationship. Understanding each other’s needs, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication are essential for navigating this dynamic. This guide explores ways to build trust, manage emotions, and decide what’s best for both partners.
What to Do When Another Person’s Anxiety is Triggering Your Own
When another person’s anxiety starts affecting your own mental state, it can be difficult to manage. This guide explores how to recognize emotional triggers, set healthy boundaries, and practice self-care while still being supportive.
How Trauma Affects Identity
Generational trauma affects more than just behavior; it shapes identity and self-perception. This guide explores the ways trauma impacts identity, with strategies for healing and reclaiming self-worth.
AI Friendships – Helpful or Harmful?
AI friendships are becoming more common, providing companionship and support. However, there are concerns about their effects on real-life relationships. This blog examines the advantages and potential risks of forming friendships with AI.
14-Ways to Keep Romance Alive in a Crowded Home
Maintaining romance in a crowded home can be challenging, but there are effective ways to keep the connection strong. This guide offers tips for finding private moments, building intimacy, and nurturing your relationship.